I have to be honest and say that what has happened to me was out of the blue and I was not expecting it.
Things happen when you least expect it.
All I can say is be patient and in time, things start to come together.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19