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Yes, do something nice but completely unexpected.


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I actually brought him cookies home from the grocery store. He seems to have perked up some after his shower. I just sat and watched Sports Center with him for a little while. I almost never do that!


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why don't you really go for it and offer him a massage

very evil grin...............

.opportunity to make a mistake.................

even more evil grin

yikes i'm awful!!

you are tooooo nice RoRo


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Hey Ro, glad you are doing so well. Its such a conscious effort to choose our own emotions and responses separate from what goes on around us but its very liberating!

Hope you have a great day!


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Originally Posted By: zig
why don't you really go for it and offer him a massage

very evil grin...............

.opportunity to make a mistake.................

even more evil grin

yikes i'm awful!!

you are tooooo nice RoRo


The last time I offered to give him a massage, he said no. Gonna wait a while before I ask again. Although, I did have other plans for him last night. ;-) Stupid back problems! LOL

Was the "too nice" thing a compliment or you telling me to worry about myself? *shrug*


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Originally Posted By: ces67
Hey Ro, glad you are doing so well. Its such a conscious effort to choose our own emotions and responses separate from what goes on around us but its very liberating!

Hope you have a great day!


Thanks Ces! It is very liberating! Now if I could remember to do it all the time! LOL


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Stop the negative-focus on the positive.


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If their were no knee or back problems this thread might be locked up by dbmod. lol.


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the too nice comment?

i think it was just part of the goofing around.

but when i read it now again, what came to mind was : we are ALL too nice here to our WAS's. - as we strive to live from our higher selves


as for taking care of yourself - i think you are doing a very nice job of it lately RoRo


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Originally Posted By: labug
Stop the negative-focus on the positive.


Got it! (You know me too well!)


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