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Does anybody know how this might affect custody?


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Talk to your L. They can tell you how it is with your sitch.


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Okay lawyer said it shouldn't affect custody or divorce very much, so a little relief there....
Took my little boy to the zoo today he really enjoyed it, took a quick picture of him sleeping in the car and send to the wife, of course she does not notice the cuteness only that his seatbelt is not as tight as it should be... ayaya


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Originally Posted By: peringo
of course she does not notice the cuteness only that his seatbelt is not as tight as it should be... ayaya

So stop sending her pictures.


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I know... moment of weakness, our little boy is so adorable, sometimes I just can't help but share...

I know in time I'll stop missing her...


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Any womens point of view as to how I can get an oppertunity show my wife that I'm not the man she see's through the fog...


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Might have slipped up or missed an oppertunity.... wife found out about my job loss, she called and said she was sorry and that I could talk to her about anything..... I said I would love to talk to the woman who stole my heart, but not the woman who is under anothers spell.... thensaid bye and hung-up....

Not sure if I did right in a moment I really needed her....


Me: 37 W:33
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W moved out 3/30/12
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She called and expressed concern for you and you basically hung up on her? I'm not sure, but I don't think that was DB. Perhaps thanking her for her concern genuinely mightve been more DB-- but you were hurting so it's understandable.

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you can apologize. even if she doesn't accept it, it's good for you.


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I sent an apology, thanked her for her concern... I miss her so much, I need cupids arrow.....


Me: 37 W:33
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Suspected: 1/7/12
Confirmed: 2/10/12
Served: 3/29/12
W moved out 3/30/12
First court 5/17/12
HELP!
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