MLC Spouse projecting negativity - Take 2

[MrBond]

Actually I'm not sensitive. I had thought your comment of it being a "hard decision" in quotes with "being passive" to be insensitive to those on here.

It's alot easier to dump all the blame on the LBS and do whatever you want than to understand what was going on, assume blame for the things you did personally and then doing the right thing.

I assume that everyone believed you were already divorced since you mentioned the classes. It still doesn't change the fact that you can't control her actions. That's why from your tone it sounded like (to me and others) that you were going to say something to your D.

So you went to the classes, etc. but you still feel like you're being disrespected because your W isn't following what you believe to be the right thing to do. Yes, I understand that the class you went to showed you what the right way is to do things, but it all comes down to what the WAS is actually going to do.

I stand by my suggestion to make an appointment with a family therapist with your W and really work out what you both should be doing.