Just got a call from my h. He sounded pretty flat and said that he was bored yesterday. Then he said that I would have enjoyed the evening he had drinking wine with his new roommate and a neighbor while gossiping about people who live in the neighborhood. I have to say, I was proud of myself in this conversation. Sometimes in an effort not to pursue, I swing to the other end and seem disinterested or tense. This time, I cheerfully answered his questions about what I did yesterday and my plans for the week, while reciprocating and commenting on his plans, etc. I was non-defensive, cheerful, pleasant, non-clingy, and calm. Getting somewhere!
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
