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RoRo, did your H know you were having dinner with a male friend? Just curious.


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Originally Posted By: nhmom
RoRo, did your H know you were having dinner with a male friend? Just curious.


Nh - Nope. There's no way he could know.


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There is always a way!


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Being a PI myself, I know this very well. LOL But unless he followed me today, he has no clue. I do wonder what his reaction would be though...but not that much since it wasn't a big deal. And I can only control me.


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OMG, I sense a TV sitcom in the making. RoRo PI


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Originally Posted By: labug
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with her sidekick pet hamster.


Y'all just made me bust out laughing at my desk! LOL


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Her sidekick pet hamster named Meow. He specializes in going down bunny holes to find hidden secrets smile


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Originally Posted By: purgatory
Her sidekick pet hamster named Meow. He specializes in going down bunny holes to find hidden secrets smile


OMG! I'm going to lose it in here! LOLOLOLOLOL


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Nothing much going on here. H did come back to bed last night. I didn’t make a big deal about him sleeping on the couch, and went to bed like I normally do. He actually made a point to talk about him coming to bed this morning. LOL Then when he kissed me bye, gave me a hug, AND another kiss. Funny, but I think I know why.

I’ve been in a really good mood these past two days. Some of that is because I finally got to see my friend John. (giggles to self) I know nothing can happen between us, but I will say getting compliments and having someone say that just seeing you made their day is good for my self esteem. LOL

I was smiling to myself this morning, and H caught me and gave me this strange look. About 5 mins later was when I got the 2 kisses and the hug. I’m feeling somewhat better about everything. There’s a lot going on with my H that has nothing to do with me (not just talking about the A), and until he’s mentally ready to deal with it, there’s not much else to do, but be here, and continue DBing. It still hurts that he chose to even bring our M to this, but I know one way or the other I’ll be fine. (I have to keep telling myself this)

Looking forward to my first DB Coaching session today. Not really sure what goals Cheryl can give me that will help my situation right now, until/if H ends his A. Other than GAL and detach, which I'm trying to do. I'll come back and update afterwards.


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