"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
ROFLMAO! ok girlfriend I won't put questions in your mouth anymore!
I am in a great mood right now so I am going to keep on laughing at all my friends who love me and want me to be the best person I can be...even if that means knocking me to the ground with a 2x4.
PEI - but you don't have to keep hitting me when I am on the ground! lol! ;)I get it. I am committed to doing the work.
It is just hard sometimes cause I am just soooooooooooooooo tired of the constant BS. I just want Peace in my life. no drama. but I realize in order to get to a peaceful place I have to finish my journey.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
I come here to vent and then I get SLAMMED. Ok, I get it. but sometimes people go to far and hurt my feelings. I am always nice and positive when I post to people.
I guess if I "craft" my posts better so that I am saying what everyone wants hear I could, but instead I write what I am feeling. and for that I get crucified.
I am not saying to everyone that I don't want you to be honest but gosh darnit, do you have to be outright mean and hurt my feelings? I respond much better to positive motivation.
and yes, if I can't handle what is being said to me, I could easily not post any more. but this site has been instrumental in my process. but the way I am feeling right now, it is worse for me to come here because it causes me sadness. when everyday right now is a struggle for happiness.
Right now guys, be honest but tread softly. I am having a really hard time right now and I need support not nastiness.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
