Basically, my husband has decided that because i break down and cry when he says things like "i don't want a family" , "i want to be free from you and our child" ..means that i'm psychotic and i have issues because according to him..."adults and families break up every day and i need to be an adult and not cry." so now, i am the one who is apparently insane, while in reality he is the one going through MLC and thinks nothing of walking out on his own child.
Last night he said "i want out of this, you're a psycho" so... I got up, walk to the front door, opened it and told him he was free as a bird and that he can fly on out the door. Instead of crying this time I went and took a shower and when i came out, he was sleeping in
Oh, and he has taken up smoking ....but instead of acting like an adult and smoke in front of me, he hides the cigs and lighter in the truck.
I'm sorry he's behaving so poorly, Ctflor. I know he wants out (or so he says) but he doesn't have to call you names.
I'd be tempted to say, "Psychopaths are incapable of feeling guilt, remorse or empathy and that certainly doesn't describe me!" But of course I'm in the midst of my own drama so don't take my advice.
