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#2135595 02/26/11 08:17 PM
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Ok here goes I guess everyone knows my stich so not getting into that. Tonight me and my W are going to my bestfriends bday party and after 3 days of sexually charged conversation with her also the providing of erotic pics by my wife has me nervous as hell. How should I act tonight at the party and what is she thinking is she testing me to see how I'm gonna act


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Don't be nervous! Same advice I gave to mykarma, be cool, be upbeat, act "as if" everything is fine.

Show her a new you.


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Second that! You have a great opportunity to impress tonight, but be Mr. Suave, Mr. Cool Calm Collected, Mr. Hard-to-get.


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Breathe.

Long, slow, deep, diaphragmatic breathing.

The mind follows the breath.
Slow down your breathing,
you slow down your thoughts.

Gives you confidence and control.


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?

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