Be the Lighthouse

[Denver_2010]

W just responded via text...

W: "Had thought about seeing if you wanted to have dinner but time slipped by with Mel. We've been brainstorming music. We should talk though. Face to face."

Me: "I'd be happy to talk to you about it whenever and wherever... tonight, tomorrow... I guess what I"m saying is that I'm available. :)"

W: "Well, I'm home. Could leave SS alone, but that's probably bad idea with weather."

Me: "I'd suggest that you guys can come over, but not sure we'd be able to talk. Guess we could rent a movie for SS upstairs. Whatever you are comfortable with."

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Waiting to hear back. I'm either in for a major jump in progress towards reconciliation, or I'm in for a major bomb that will set me back a few hundred steps.

Very nervous here.

BITS
Denver

[Denver_2010]

Wish that I could call my DB coach right now!!! They need to have an on-call coach! LOL...

[2stepboogie]

She took her time to respond, she thought about it before she got back to you. I suggest you do the same. Take time to think before you text.

No promises but this does not seem like any kind of bomb. I am actually nervous also. I am turning into such a woman.

Don't jump with both feet first. It took baby steps and patience to get this far, continue with this approach Denver.

[Denver_2010]

No promises but this does not seem like any kind of bomb. I am actually nervous also. I am turning into such a woman.

Dude, I laughed out loud when I just read this!! We are aren't we??? LOL...

[Denver_2010]

Not that there's anything wrong with it BIDETS...

[2stepboogie]

LOL I might as well change my title from BITS to BIDET. If you were to meet me or some of my friends we are probably the least sensitive guys you will ever meet.

A bunch of us play on a football league every fall and the other teams think we are crazy and here I am with a knot in my stomach because you might actually have your W come over tonight and the M talk at her request.

I am checking myself to make sure I have not gone through some sex change. Oh well keep us posted since we seem to be the only two without a life right now

[Denver_2010]

If you were to meet me or some of my friends we are probably the least sensitive guys you will ever meet.

You are cracking me up tonight! Me and my friends are the same. I went out with a couple of them last night and tore it up. I got pretty drunk and started telling them about the DB stuff, the WAW, and how they need to be careful about how they treat their wives... Needless to say, they just looked at me funny and then called me some names that I can't repeat here. LOL... it's pretty funny to think back on it now that I'm sober.

I am checking myself to make sure I have not gone through some sex change. Oh well keep us posted since we seem to be the only two without a life right now

LOL... I will 2Step. Too bad we can't all go out and share some war stories over a few beers! We'd probably have to hold FOBD back from fighting with fences though! J/k FOBD!

BITS
Denver

[2stepboogie]

I think partying with FOBD would be a barrel of yuks but I would carry around a piece of a wooden fence with us all night so we wouldn't lose him.

I am going to get out of here or you are going to have to start a new thread, not getting a whole lot of advice at this point.

As for telling my friends about the DB and WAW you are braver than me, if I mention that to my friends I would be friendless along with being wifeless

[Denver_2010]

Seriously, I think that my W is DBing me... Unbelievable.

So here's the latest. W just finished working on music with her band partner. She responds to my last text to her:

W: "I think that I'm too tired to talk tonight. Let me know if you'd like to meet sometime to talk though. Although I'd be fine watching the game tomorrow, I think it sends very mixed messages to you and SS, so I probably shouldn't. I appreciate the invitation but there are too many unresolved issue with us right now."

Me: "Ok. I understand. Maybe we can go to dinner and talk sometime next week?"

W: "Sure. Just let me know when you are thinking. I think that I'm going to crash soon. Too much wine with Mel as usual!"

Me: "Ok. Goodnight."

W: "night"
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What the hell?!!? Now coming over to watch the game "sends very mixed messages" to me?!?!? But just earlier in the night she's saying that she doesn't understand "why you haven't initiated a conversation with me or tried to work things out."!!!! What?! Those two very different statements DON'T send mixed messages W?!

F&#*$&ing seriously!!! This damn WAS syndrome needs a cure. This is ridiculous.

I know that I f'd up in our M, but how much punishment do I really deserve?!

Sorry... just venting.

BITS
Denver

[Denver_2010]

Having a VERY difficult time being the damn lighthouse right now!

The quote in my signature line below has never seemed so appropriate to me as it does now.