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>>>>>UPDATE ALERT (Yes 2Step, I'm stealing this from you!)<<<<<<<<

W just texted me about tomorrow.

W: "I'm not sure how i feel about going to your place to watch the game tomorrow since we haven't had any discussions about our situation. What are your thoughts?"

Me: "I understand how you feel. But I think that it would be nice to just hang out. So I'm not uncomfortable with it at all. I don't want you to be uncomfortable though. It is truly up to you. I would luv to have you guys over, but I will understand if you decide not to."

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W has not responded yet.

It seems to me that W is trying to put the ball in my court on both, her coming over to watch SB AND R talk... Like I've said before, W does not like to initiate things like R talk.

What do you guys think?

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I think this is a copyright violations! LOL

Cool give her some time to think. Another alternative is to go someplace neutral.


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That's not a bad idea. I may throw that out there.

It's just so frustrating knowing that W so obviously wants to have a R talk, but she just won't initiate it.

This is all just such a game. I hate it. But what choice do we have??

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Right now none. Everyday you spend with her you get new info and more data on how she is doing or reacting to being around you.

It is a game and he who maintains his cool and follows the plan wins! Your move!


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If she wants to talk about it that bad she will bring it up. She had the courage to leave right? Well if it is important enough to her she will have enough courage to talk


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It's the Super Bowl, not the right time to talk R/M you won't fix your M tomorrow over dinner and you'll miss the game.

Sorry just rattling stuff as it comes to my mind


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I agree. I just wish that she'd do it already so that I knew what was going on in that pretty head of her's! Or maybe I don't want to know. All I need right now is to have her drop another bomb on me. Ahhhhhh!!!!!!

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Haste makes Waste…………


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Man, you and I must REALLY be bored this afternoon! I think that we're the only ones here right now. LOL...


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hahahahahahah I am taking a test as I post. I have no life. Its a two man show right now


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