Also I texted her S with some encouragement after the game again this is a kid I brought to all his sports games for 8 yrs. Is this bad or something she or you guys would interpret as pursuing
I think you should stay in contact with the S. If you cared for this child for 8 years and spent all this time with him, I think it would be wrong to abandon him now, no matter what SHE thinks. This S looks up to you as his father and male support. Do not let this get in the way. I'm sure you are very important to him.
I'm soory for your sitch and very good luck to you.
