I don't know what she is doing. But my mindreading (gasp!) is that she is giving herself some space while she tries to consider what she wants. That might not be the case, but if that's what she is doing, I think this is what it would look like.
And gucci I already told her she is free to leave if she won't respect the boundry so why would she play me when I told her to leave?
Stop changing the subject. It isn't why would she play me?
IT IS that SHE IS PLAYING YOU..
You don't get it. You are being played..
When women are having an affair they do things like "girls night out on a Friday"... "girls night to make a float"...
I believe that last week she told you that she was going out with the girls this weekend on both Friday and Saturday. What happened to that idea that you said was going to happen this weekend?
You can believe anything you want. Doesn't matter to me. However, I have been an expert at this stuff for over twenty years and you ARE being played. Believe what you want.
This is what you told us she told you a few days ago... She was ALREADY setting you up for being out the whole weekend....
And of course you fell for it, hook, line and sinker... How naive of you. Come on man, wake up and stop being in denial because of fear.
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She informed me she was going on a Girls Night Out and she would be out Friday and Saturday 22 - 23 Oct. I asked where.. she said "It wont be with a man".. I doubt it..
Vh, good question. My dad just called me and told me she sent him the pic of her and her gfriends. That is odd. She has little contact with my dad since telling me is divorcing me. I think she is doing what she said she was doing
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
I didn't say she wasn't with her gf's.... The gf's are her cover for her lie...
Wow. You are in some kind of denial..
You do realize that she knows that you are looking at her FB and she knows that you talk to your dad? Right?
She is doing all this to cover her tracks. It is classic...
Trust me.. I know this stuff... I know many, many men and women who I have seen in my own personal life and on this site that ALL have used their friends as their cover. It is standard procedure for somenone in an affair.
When a woman says they need time to think, it is womanese for "I already know who i am interested in but I don't want to hurt you or burn a bridge just in case it doesn't work out with the guy I secretly like"...
This guy is making HER do the chasing, which is what turns women on. They prefer to chase eve though they tell you differently.
