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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Nope, no passionate kiss...



Hmmmm.


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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Nope, no passionate kiss...



Hmmmm.


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I agree this isn't how a woman acts who is serious about her man. The cat just caught the bird and is now just playing with it, can't decide whether to let it go or finish it off. She's bored, this bird was too easy to catch.

does she have a secret phone? another FB account?


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She could have a secret phone, but not I haven't found it. I have a keylogger on her computer, no signs of anything fishy.

I think it's just her expecting me to cave again. As well as just enjoying ML.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
If I recall right, Sandi was a WAW who wasn't involved with anyone, (no EA/PA) but just unhappy. Sounds a lot like my wife.

She had an on line EA with an OM but she also has strong religious faith and lots of better judgement.

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Oh, my mistake about Sandi.

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I think it's just her expecting me to cave again.


because last time she played this card what happened? She's doing what works. time to try the on-sides kick to start the second half.


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Yeah, it's clear she expects me to cave. I made it really clear that ML was just for fun, not changing anything with me moving out. But she may see that as just more words...

But also, she's still not really initiating this stuff. Last night she had the chance to opt out, but didn't...

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I made it really clear that ML was just for fun
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You know what is more clear? "We had better not do this anymore because I don't want to confuse you".


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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Yeah, it's clear she expects me to cave. I made it really clear that ML was just for fun, not changing anything with me moving out. But she may see that as just more words...

But also, she's still not really initiating this stuff. Last night she had the chance to opt out, but didn't...


And you expect what?

You are sending her mixed messages. Let's ML while I'm still here before I'll be gone tomorrow.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Nope, no passionate kiss...


awkward to hear a man describe it like that.

Out of curosity, what will you do if the day you move out your wife changes the locks and her phone number and files for divorce?

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