Hey Hope, will check you out and watch you progress--I am SO GLAD you are going over there--they are TOUGH and GOOD and you will learn it and use it yourself--I swear I feel absolutely empowered by lurking over there.lol.

I do so get trying to have an "intact family" no matter what--I am coming out of my fog as well and realize that my S needs to see a strong woman and mother that sticks up for both his rights and her own!