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Well, I had a very nice dinner. We walked a bit afterwards, an arm around her shoulder, her's around my waist... very nice.

And it was probably a good thing we were in a parking lot when we said goodbye!

Dinner with a dfferent woman tomorrow, still not thrilled at the timing, but it will be ok!

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FUN FUN FUN!!!!!

Enjoy the buffet Jeff!


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Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
And it was probably a good thing we were in a parking lot when we said goodbye!

I know the situation - I even commented once... "what are others thinking as they walk by us" - to which she replied "Get A Room!"

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Yes... getting a room seemed like a good plan, actually!

Date tonight.... ok, no sparks at all for me. It's hard to know what the difference is, but it's obvious when it's there! Like they say, I don't know what it is, but I know it when I see it!

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Ick....
Got an email this morning from date from Saturday and Wednesday.

Seems that months ago she was dating a guy, he got laid off, and he had to move to work. Well, he is back in town...

In actual fact, it's a good thing, it's sad to see a potential relationship messed up by something like a layoff, so I am happy for her. Even told her so in my response. But the high road is a pain, sometimes!

On the other hand, she said that I was a good kisser, and a catch. Can I use that info as a reference in my profile?

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Crap! I had some high hopes for the petite one and you. Back to the drawing board.

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Maybe you should ask them to rate you on a star based system! Gee, that sounds like fun. Maybe even print up a survey. Gee I really need to go home because that sounds so funny. smile

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I know this is going to sound snarky so please forgive me in advance but I am actually curious as you seem to be a very good "dater"...

You went on two dates with Sat. and Wed. lady and you really felt upset that she is getting back with her old boyfriend?

I know that sounds awful and I certainly am not making light of how you might feel but I am just wondering how that all goes?

You do sound like a good catch!

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(((((CG)))))

No, I wasn't upset! I am happy for her, for real! It's disappointing, for me, but it is really good! It seemed that there were possibilities. So it is disappointing. But I don't think I would call it upsetting.

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Right.. I get that. I guess I was more just wondering how you (general you) go about seeing possibility after two dates?

I know this sounds very smart ass and I am actually really just trying to learn as I think there might be something fundamentally wrong with me!

Like what did you "see" that showed you possibility? Or what *could* you see after two dates?

I know this sounds awful but I am so amazed at how all of you are brave enough to make this transition. HELP me?! smile

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