You said you "marvel" and that is from the movie! I haven't seen the movie but I did read the book - you said you saw the movie and had not read the book. I think you would like it!
Ok I tell you guys way too much. I am CHOOSING to fling or not to fling but I am wincing from what I suspect will be 2x4s coming my way! I have my riot gear on...
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Mystik - post over here (we are all nuts!). You sound MUCH stronger here! I like it!
I agree with CG! You do sound much stronger here Mystik! This thread is just buzzing all the time...good to read some fun stuff! I am like a fly on the wall...silently enjoying the fun!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
NM, 85 pages of posts! How can a girl catch up with what you've been doing?! Can you provide me a quick 2-3 line summary? Can't wait to read it, ha!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
Kerry--wow, that image of the man with the 2x4 will be floating above my shoulder when I am contemplating certain actions! Scary!
Piano here is the recap but it will be a paragraph:
I ended up "gettin it on" with zoobrew over a week ago and left my ring at his house (accidentally). He said he was meeting with his exG that week to see if she was remorseful and willing to improve her anger issues. I decided not to pursue in any way to give him space and really thought he would be calling to let me know what happened. A week later,I still hadn't heard from him so I sent him a text asking for my ring back. Turns out he still hasn't talked to his exG and wanted to see me again but didn't contact me because he thought he offended me (when I didn't contact him) and because he "doesn't know how to do this kind of thing." I talked to him on the phone on Monday night and you can get the recap on page 84. If circumstances allow, WE WILL have another session!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Mystik--whoa, where did that side of you come from? I like it!
OH, CG- now I get it! I thought you meant the book for becoming friends with a man and falling in love!
Just came back from spending the night at my friend's house. S loves her kids and vice-versa so it's great although always a little stressful being in a non baby proof place!
Well we watched a really boring movie with some good "one liners" but it was "Greenberg" with Ben Stiller. If anyone has seen it and like it, please explain it to me. Here is good one liner:
"Hurt People HURT people."
Very true don't you think?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
CW--the whole dating saga seems to attract opinions! (as it should)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Sent zoobrew a "flirty" text around 6:30 (after his kids had left to visit their mom...just in case)
Got a reply instantly that implied he approved.
Sent him another and didn't hear back for over an hour!
He replied that he just got it and again, indicated he approved.
I left it by saying something else and signed off "until we chat again..."
He replied with a hahaha!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
