Hey NM, hard to catch up after a couple of days, your thread moves too fast lol.
Re: plentyofish: yeah that's interesting how some people are so aggressive about meeting others. I also think email and texting has really changed how we communicate. I bet it would be very uncomfortable to say that sort of stuff on the phone...but what do I know?!
I like your Aug goals! Did I miss an update on zoobrew? sounds like it's finished for now? Me I'm backing waaay off dating at this point. It's too much of a chore, I'm actually liking just being alone now. Weird. I want to focus more on me.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Romeo- about zoobrew- that was it! I wouldn't be surprised if I hear from him sometime this month, either next week or toward the end of the month. Otherwise, I have my memories and my new standard for next year when I get back out there!
Yeah, the plentyoffish guy emailed me 3 more times to say 1) well, there are 2 movie theaters by my house 2)I'm sorry if I offended you 3)I do find you attractive and would love to hang out with you.
Of course I did not respond to any of them! Thank goodness most of the men DID NOT come across like he did!
As for you backing off on dating and it being a chore- YES IT IS! I remember thinking "I forgot how much WORK this is" and now that we are parents and dating, there is even less time and MORE complications with scheduling, other factors, etc.
So good for you for focusing more on you. I am ready for that as well!
Oh and today I forgot that I had to drop off S in daycare to get him used to it. I KNOW that he will love it, because there are other babies and nice teachers and fun things to do. But of course he started screaming his head off and I had to jet out of there. The director didn't blink- it happens at first! I told her when I would be back and she said "take your time! Run some errands!" I said "no...I will be back a little earlier probably...this is hard!"
So I am here at home, about to do some massive moving of stuff to the garage, but just procrastinating on the forum first.
Oh and we WILL go to the awesome park later this week...today we will do our usual nature park walk after his nap.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Too many "rules". I put 'rules' people in another category of desperation altogether.
These 'rules' are setup to filter out the desperate and needy and pushy.
But they are set up for people who are desperate and needy and need rules.
Now, if it takes a week to set up a second date because you are busy with your life and you are not desperate, then that's fine. But you see? It's not a rule, then, is it? It's not acting.
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M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
