The Moon will be in your sign for most of the weekend. This may cause you to feel a little sensitive, fragile, anxious and exposed. It will also, though, allow you to be much more creative, inventive, incisive and inspired. If you don't already have a busy schedule, involving plenty of opportunity to explore your imagination, find such a task and throw yourself into it. And whatever you do, avoid dwelling on emotions that seem, somehow, more powerful than they actually are.
Quote: Hi LL...actually the anniversary of OW's "entrance into MY life" is....tomorrow!!
So I hear ya.
Shiny
suppose they are just days and shouldn't be held onto and remebered...but they do mean something don't they?
aww heck I don't know what to do...but I know I don't like the icky feelings surrounding such anniversaries...perhaps we can just allow ourselves to feel the ick and then look at what that damn ick allowed us to gain?
LL..I just love to read your threads!You have a way to bring a smile to my face...I like the "ick"language..and how true....look at where it has gotten you and the rest of us...it has waken us up to many things that might have festered and festered.
Thanks for stopping by ..and for reminding me that I am stronger then I realize..and I will get past the ick...eventually!
can I just say that I hate sundays with a passion!!! each week I foolishly look forward to sunday as that is h's day off...now it seems I'm looking forward to a sunday when he wakes at the crack of dawn and leaves to go to the game instead of waking up barely eating breakfast and then getting outside to keep himself busy until 1 when he starts watching football for the rest of the day and night.
why don't I get a day off??? why can I never just go and do what I want? why does life revolve around him?
what is the point of being married?
I think I'd like to be a single old lady...funny is that is the way I see my future anyway.
LL....if you had a dog, you wouldn't spend time and energy wishing it would behave like a cat, would you? Your husband loves sports...he's a football fan, so he's going to behave like one. I know, mine is,too. Mine loves to watch sports of ALL kinds...so adapt. Think of it this way, he could have an obsession with porn and want to watch porn all the time...or he could want to go to topless bars all the time...or he could want to chase hookers....etc.etc.etc. So, football is a lesser evil...LOL
You NEED to make time for yourself. Find a way to get some time off...you are responsible for your own happiness.
Don't ASSUME this is going to be a bad month or two. ASSUME it is going to be a wonderful, family holiday time. Do things to make it special this year...focus on positive...I know you can do it! Think of this year as a challenge...it's your challenge to make this the best holiday season ever....and you can!
yes my h is a football fan and always will be..doesn't mean I have to like it what it does however seem to mean is that when son and the rest of us look forward to the day that he doesn't have to go into work and are constantly dissapointed when we realize that he intends to do nothing but watch football and talk on the damn phone all day is pretty annoying.
perhaps your children are grown and you have more flexability and therefore an easier time accepting this sports addiction...I however have two very young children and can't just go off and read a book or watch a show or cook dinner or fold the laundry or clean out a closet or go for a walk or go anywhere without tagging them along...
so yes it pisses me off to no end that h does as he damn well pleases around here while I am the friggen mother and slave to all.
I feel like a slave that has no right to her own life and it pisses me the [censored] off and I don't think there's any little happy pill you could subscribe that will change that.
now when the kids are both old enough to entertain themselves and not get into too much trouble while daddy parks his butt on the couch all day watching football and cussing on the phone with his buddie...I wont be here..I will take my time..I will come and go as I please..heck I might even take a nap..I might even lock the bathroom door. or maybe the kids and I will go off and do something fun (right now fun ivolves too much whining and I do that all damn week)
I think maybe h should just go down to buddies on sundays and perhaps monday nights too..cause his presence here annoys the living crap out of me on these days.
LL....You can not control him. You can only control yourself. I am going to probably anger you more...but get off your pity pot and go do something without him. Take the kids and go have some fun. Quit waiting for him to do something he isn't going to do...this is a cheeseless tunnel. Get out of it.
Hugs..Akgal....and you can be mad at me all you want, it's ok....I understand more than you think....I had to get over my aggravation and force myself to go out..and I don't drive so without H to take me out...it was hard, but I did it and do it...
the point is I am with them the other six days of the week...aren't I entitled to a day off???
or perhaps what annoys me most is that he is here on this day but isn't here...it's as if I'd rather he just not be here if he's not going to be here!
get it?
you can say whatever you want...it is not you who is going to make me mad it is h and his lack of consideration for the fact that he does have a wife and kids here.
so if I'm to take your suggestion that would mean that a better way to deal with the day would be to take two little kids off to spend the day somewhere else? and leave h to a quiet peacfull empty house to watch his football? ya that's sounds good.
