I felt like it was something I wanted to share with her. Our D2 potty training has been a problem for a while. I guess maybe I wanted to brag a bit!? This is the first time she has actually peed in something other than her diaper! I also had something that I wanted to share about how I got her to go. I gave her a cup of water while she sat there. She started playing in the water and then she peed! Ex thought it was a cool trick.
I could have told her on monday but the excitement would have worn off by then.
As for your question about what I want to do...I am starting to get back to normal after signing the papers so a little contact from her is fine. My stance is going to be open to talking but not best buddies. I don't want to know too much about her life right now. That is part of why I want to separate myself from the in-laws too.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Hi v1olin! Just checking in to lend my support. Haven't read your whole sitch yet, but can really relate to wanting to share your D2's potty training coup with your Ex. This is a big thing! Will go back and read your story. Courage!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
"Happy Father's day!! I hope you like the girls present and have another fun day!"
I responded, "thanks!"
Spending fathers day without my partner in parenthood really sucks but I guess it is just another day. Happy Father's day to all you fathers out there!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
violin, I'm glad you met Piano,lol! If I were an instrument, I would be a cello! My favorite stringed instrument!
Anyway I saw your post on Piano's thread and it was so touching to see you stayed home to take care of your baby daughter. She is so lucky, seriously, to have you as her father! Happy Father's Day!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Where's a violin, a piano, a cello then Romeo can't be too far either...lol
v1, at least she wished you a happy father's day just take it for what it is. Glad to hear you had the girls today to hang out with and enjoy the day!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Lol! We are a performance waiting to happen! Happy father's day to v1olin and other dads out there!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
