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#2010103 05/26/10 02:13 PM
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After all this time, I did it. What I fought so hard to avoid happened. I went and met with a lawyer yesterday. It is my only option left at this point.

Of course to try to keep costs down he suggested that Mark and I try to come to an agreeance on everything. So I called him and spoke to him. His response was I'm not getting a lawyer, do whatever, I"ll sign it, my f'in life sucks anyway. I wasn't entirely shocked by his response I knew he'd play the poor me act like he always does.

So on with it .......


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Originally Posted By: nikblondiew
His response was I'm not getting a lawyer, do whatever, I"ll sign it, my f'in life sucks anyway.


hmmmm, might I suggest you follow mishka's threads here. This response gives me a funny feeling.


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Not getting a lawyer?
I'll sign whatever?
My life f'in sucks?


Where have I heard that before??? whistle

Sorry it has come to this Nik...


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Exactly what mine said too!


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Be prepared for him to lawyer up at some point -- especially once he sees the financial hit.


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Mine was a little different,,,(thx for the hijack)

He said, 'I will run MY businesses to the ground before I ever let you have a piece of them'

I just said, 'H whatever the judge says I need to do, I will abide by his decisions. Whatever happens,,happens and i'm done fighting and arguing with you. That was 11/2007 1wk after being served.

1/2010 Mediation, H says, 'I'm not paying you anything and if you get an atty I will drag your family and friends thru the mud!' And BTW,,I can f*@k whoever I want i'm not going to sit around and wait for you!'

5/2010 My Atty sent his atty interogatories/pattern & non-pattern responses to our ?'s, he has now decided to sell 2 of the businesses and give the hummer to OW and is going for SOLE custody & sole decision making for our 2 youngest@ home!

My point is: No matter how bad it gets always remember that you have done your best and you have tried, keep your chin up and don't let him control you or the sitch any longer. Trust your atty and know that we are all here to help,,In YOUR best interest!

((((HUGS))))

Kim


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