beginning to see the real W

[Dr LOve]

THANKS Rob and Day,

Well wife was happy for me. I was just bursting with pride. I did get a few hugs and kisses but nothing great.But that is OK I am NOT doing this for my wife I am doing it for ME, Soooooooooooooo... since she does not want to celibrate I am going out tonight and shoot a little pool. Hey it's been awhile and I deserve it...Every rose has it's thorn
Have a great weekend everyone

Doc..

[Dr LOve]

Well I went out to play pool last night. But I couldn’t find anyone that I wanted to play pool with so I came home. Wife said “you are home early” I said ya there was nobody out tonight and I did not want to sit there by myself” (Mistake on my part… came across as feeling sorry for myself...I know) anyway she said “well if you want to celebrate your good grades tonight I can make us margaritas and son a Roy Rogers and we can watch a movie.” I told her I didn’t need her to do that I just felt like going out tonight and playing some pool. But if she wanted to I was up for it. So Son and I went out and got a movie and when we got home there was a Margarita sitting by my chair, a Roy Roger by where son sits and some chips and we watched a movie. AND had a good time.
So my own saying... ”your truth is only what you believe it to be” bit me in the butt. I feel embarrassed typing this and admitting how I acted but I feel that I (and everyone) need to take responsibility for for my own actions.
I REALLY have allot of work to do on myself. Yes I am improving but I still have a ways to go.

[MrBond]

In a case like last night, when your W asked if you wanted to do anything, have you thought of slyly "suggesting" some lovin'? Right now it sounds like you two have been living as roommates for a very long time.

I think maybe you should try pushing the friends envelope a little.

[Dr LOve]

You are right Mr Bond....

I need to adjust MY attitude in that area. I think I havebeen working in the "roomate" mode for so long that my quick ansers to questions like that are geared to the Roomate and NOT lover..

Thanks
Doc

[Butterfly1]

Doc, you rock! The grades and the margarita night - congrats on all.

[Dr LOve]

Thanks hope,
I really am intending on posting something for you on your site but have been VERRRRRY busy with homework.
AND THIS RAIN HAS TO STOP!! SO much homework so little time to DB... BUT..... I have adjusted my "roommate" attitude. I have been making Very suggestive remarks to wife and she has NOT gotten mad at me (like in the past) now she smiles.
I know what you are thinking OT...Soon...

Got ta go and take my on line test now…I will try to post a better update soon

Doc

[Daybreak]

Doc,

The suggestive remarks (and W's responses to them) is a very good opening. If there is quite a bit of space between you two when that has happened, maybe you need to try closing the physical distance as you make these remarks - see what happens...

[Dr LOve]

I agree

[fightingirish]

Hey doc... Whats UP?

[Dr LOve]

Hey Fish,
Hope things went well with your trip. Don't really have time for a "proper" update... but things are going good. Spending ALLOT of time on homework but so far have not gotten anything lower that a B on tests. I am starting to get an uneasy feeling at school becasue allot of the female students are starting to wear less and less...
But on the other hand this has led me to want to me with my wife more and more.
Have some medical concerns that I will be dealing with on the 14th of June. Wife has been supportive so far. Funny but about two years ago when I had to go in for surgery I was afraid to put wife's name down as the person who would make the decision to “pull the plug”. I even had to get my mom to take me to the hospital that day of the surgery because Wife was “too busy”.
This time... as soon as wife heard I needed these tests done she put it on her colander.
It’s time my friends…it is time for the R talk… I need to know some things BEFORE the tests come back.
To all of you out there that is in this situation….. YOUR attitude is what will make the difference….I do not need my wife to be happy...as the saying goes…”build it and they will come” well build a better you and they will come///