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Re: Single and Loving It??? SoCo #1984464 04/17/10 08:38 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Have fun Chris! You'll be just fine. Lunch is a good start and easy to step away from if things just aren't going well at all. T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: Single and Loving It??? mishka422 #1984611 04/18/10 01:09 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	That is how I feel. Lunch is a specific time frame. If I don't like him, I can go back to work and not give it another thought, and vice versa. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1984644 04/18/10 02:16 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	LolaL, Good for you that most of your posts on this deal with whether or not you will like/be impressed by him. Far too many people go into meetings like this with an overwhelmingly negative mantra of, "I hooe he likes me, I hope he likes me." Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Single and Loving It??? Gardener #1984850 04/18/10 04:41 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Thanks Gardener, I really didn't think of it that way. But that is true...I am looking at it from that perspective. I don't want to be in a situation where I am dating or seeing someone just for the case of being with someone. I am fine on my own, and happy. I have decided I don't want to rush into anything. I have done that, and it sure ended up bad. I don't want to be in that positi0n again. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1984942 04/18/10 08:00 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	LolaL, Originally Posted By: LolaL I don't want to be in a situation where I am dating or seeing someone just for the case of being with someone. I am fine on my own, and happy. Now that's what I call healthy! Good for you! Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Single and Loving It??? Gardener #1985558 04/19/10 05:19 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	God knows it took me long enough to get here! I do have to say, though, I am glad I took the time to really heal. There is something to be said for closure. Haven't spoken to the SG in a week, and honestly, have no desire to speak to him. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1985568 04/19/10 05:24 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Yay....definitely good. I have to remind myself of that sometimes, that I don't just want someone around for the sake of having them around... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Single and Loving It??? BobbiJo #1985748 04/19/10 07:58 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Hear hear! Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Single and Loving It??? BobbiJo #1985756 04/19/10 08:02 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261 K Kalni Member
Kalni Member K Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261	Originally Posted By: BobbiJo Yay....definitely good. I have to remind myself of that sometimes, that I don't just want someone around for the sake of having them around... Unless it's for limited "use"? Are we allowed? Me&H:42 S11&D10 Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007 Reconc.November 2009

Re: Single and Loving It??? Kalni #1985759 04/19/10 08:04 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Originally Posted By: Kalni Originally Posted By: BobbiJo Yay....definitely good. I have to remind myself of that sometimes, that I don't just want someone around for the sake of having them around... Unless it's for limited "use"? Are we allowed? Well, yeah, there's always that... Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

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