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Re: Single and Loving It??? BobbiJo #1979858 04/12/10 08:14 AM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257 D DaddyLongShanks Member
DaddyLongShanks Member D Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257	uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu Originally Posted By: BobbiJo I still call "Boundaries in Marriage" the most life-changing book I ever read. Even though I hate saying that and sounding like Oprah...I read it last June on a work trip, sitting outside by the lake. It helped me see where my lack of enforcing boundaries contributed to the problems in my M, and where his resistance of boundaries also contributed. No matter what I can take those lessons in to my next relationship. Both from the point of view of not making the same mistakes I made before, and from the point of recognizing in future men that boundary-resistant personality that I do not want to have back in my life...so even if you aren't married it is a great book! Ok getting off my soapbox... If your getting respect, and your communicating - there won't be much boundary enforcement to do at all. Its when you lost respect and the other party does not care, or does not think about whats important to you that you are enforcing boundaries.

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1979875 04/12/10 11:53 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261 K Kalni Member
Kalni Member K Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261	Originally Posted By: LolaL Tomorrow is one year when my brother Kevin was found. I feel so sad. I miss him so much. But this past year has taught me to hold the people I love close. I really don't have anything else to say. I am so sorry sweets, lots and lots of hugs (((()))) K Me&H:42 S11&D10 Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007 Reconc.November 2009

Re: Single and Loving It??? Kalni #1979953 04/12/10 02:09 PM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,991 out in the boonies of kansas B Babygirl Member
Babygirl Member B Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,991 out in the boonies of kansas	Hey lola, thinking of you today and holding you close at heart. M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010

Re: Single and Loving It??? Babygirl #1980007 04/12/10 03:01 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Thanks...actually the day is going better than I thought it would... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1980040 04/12/10 03:25 PM
Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas S SoCo Member
SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Wow, it's been a year. I'm so sorry. I know it has been really hard for you. Stay strong and try to do something positive today girl. "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: Single and Loving It??? SoCo #1980099 04/12/10 04:14 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Positive? I'm working I don't think that is going to happen!! LOL! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? SoCo #1980105 04/12/10 04:24 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	((((((Lola))))))) Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: Single and Loving It??? MichelleLT #1980460 04/12/10 10:54 PM
Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas S SoCo Member
SoCo Member S Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,160 Texas	Haha. Well, at least you ARE working! LOL "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier "One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher me 33, s 9, d 4

Re: Single and Loving It??? SoCo #1980645 04/13/10 03:08 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	LOL SoCo, you know it! And actually have a job I love, FINALLY!!! I do have to watch my internet time at work...but my bosses are great, and I have found peace. I also have booked a cruise for the Tween and myself in August, and it is coming up fast!!!!! Next step, passports, and airline tickets!! Can you say oooh Bahamas... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: Single and Loving It??? LolaL #1980797 04/13/10 01:54 PM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Better yet.....can you say "Bahama Mama's"? AWESOME! T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

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