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I would say he is cute more than hot mind... smile

However in the 5 hours we hung out we never ran out of things to talk about and had come up with a handful of things we wanted to do together in the future and that counts for a lot. Since I knew him back in high school there is a comfort level there vs. the random 'unknown' element of Match guys...

Just going to see what happens and have fun hanging out...


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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo


Just going to see what happens and have fun hanging out...


good for you... fun.. what a novel concept! smile

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Yep, decided to have fun for a change. Do what I want and not worry about the big picture...

I taught Children's Church this morning--kids 5-8 can come down and get a lesson while the grownups listen to the sermon.

I didn't go up to the sanctuary, just went straight down to the classroom in the basement bc I got there 15 minutes after church started and it was almost time for class...

Ran upstairs to grab some tissues (stupid cold!) and saw Dan was there with Nathan...Dan hasn't been to church in 6 weeks so I was glad they came. Sydney was down in the nursery.

Well Nathan was thrilled to see me during kids' church. However Sydney saw me after church and wanted Mommy! She hugged me tight and didn't want to let go. Dan said she had been having a 'rough time'...

Maybe I was mean but I did not rescue. I told them to have fun at lunch (always go out after church for lunch) and I would pick them up at 5...Sydney didn't want me to go without her but I hugged her tight and gave her back to her Dad. It's time he learn to deal with them when they are upset about our situation...


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((bobbi jo)) I'm sure that had to be hard.

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It's time he learn to deal ...
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I am sorry Bbj... Yeah, he has to learn to be a dad and deal with the emotions of the kids as well...
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BBJ -

You, absolutely, did the right thing. Your kids need to see that you think it's ok they are w/Dad, too (even if you're not thrilled!).

Way to go, and way to lead your family.


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Ok...so....does texting on/off for 5 hours mean it might have been a date??

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Either that or I have an awesome new friend...which is a great thing to have! smile

On a different note,Nathan has been watching health care bill coverage with me on Fox....he just called his sister Nancy Pelosi....I may be warping my children! laugh


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I don't know. I have been texting J off and on all weekend but it wasn't a date. Just friends hanging out. It is what you make it and hon, it sounds like you want it to be a date! i should take my own advice on that one!!

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Actually I don't really care if it was a date or friends hanging out. It has just been 18 years (and one day, but who's counting!) since I hung out with a guy other than Dan so I am learning...

Screw it, it is fun so who cares? smile


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Could be a date. Or not. Sounds fun. Goldey likes.
Dan...un-fun.

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