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Re: If Not Now, When? Kalni #1955829 03/10/10 07:55 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	I agree 100000% K. That is my point. I made a similar observation on Lola's thread last week. I spent so long (almost 3 years now since I first suspected OW) working/trying/fighting to keep our relationship together, and it didn't work. I know I did my best, and tried everything I knew to try, so it isn't that I am upset about that part. I mean of course hindsight is 20/20 so I would do things differently if I could, but I can't, so I don't dwell on it. But the things is, I am used to being in "fight or flight" mode, and now there is nothing to "fight" against. The battle to save the marriage is over, and I lost. I have gotten so used to 'thinking/trying/hoping/praying' that I am not sure what to do with myself now that I am out of that mode... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

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If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/09/10 05:36 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	nikblondiew	03/09/10 05:44 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	kat727	03/09/10 05:50 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/09/10 06:39 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	LolaL	03/09/10 06:56 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	nikblondiew	03/09/10 07:52 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/09/10 08:42 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/09/10 08:56 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Kalni	03/09/10 09:17 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	sandycay	03/09/10 09:55 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	nikblondiew	03/09/10 10:01 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Tomato	03/09/10 10:37 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Wholeagain	03/09/10 11:12 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/10/10 12:29 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/10/10 06:46 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/10/10 06:45 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Bridgestone	03/10/10 06:50 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	NoLongerHere	03/10/10 06:51 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	kat727	03/10/10 07:05 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/10/10 07:47 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Kalni	03/10/10 07:50 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/10/10 07:55 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	hoosiermama	03/10/10 08:01 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	NoLongerHere	03/10/10 08:36 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/11/10 05:01 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/11/10 05:26 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ernest88	03/11/10 01:28 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	LolaL	03/11/10 02:19 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	nikblondiew	03/12/10 12:14 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	john210	03/12/10 12:34 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/12/10 12:52 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/12/10 02:55 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/12/10 05:56 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	john210	03/12/10 12:23 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/12/10 03:06 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/12/10 04:27 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/12/10 04:37 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/12/10 05:10 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/12/10 05:38 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/12/10 05:47 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	LolaL	03/12/10 07:28 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	kat727	03/12/10 09:27 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/13/10 01:59 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/13/10 03:57 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/14/10 12:03 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/14/10 12:10 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/14/10 07:21 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/14/10 07:27 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/14/10 08:24 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/14/10 09:37 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/14/10 10:59 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	mindfull	03/15/10 12:08 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/15/10 12:33 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/15/10 02:37 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	john210	03/15/10 02:03 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	LolaL	03/15/10 02:33 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/15/10 05:27 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/15/10 08:22 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	mindfull	03/15/10 08:29 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/15/10 09:13 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 01:24 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 01:26 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	mindfull	03/16/10 01:27 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/16/10 03:01 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 03:33 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/16/10 03:54 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/16/10 03:57 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Kalni	03/16/10 10:10 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/16/10 12:30 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	john210	03/16/10 01:13 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 02:15 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/16/10 04:23 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 06:58 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 07:01 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/16/10 07:05 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	NNP1965	03/16/10 09:28 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/16/10 10:23 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/16/10 10:50 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/17/10 12:05 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	cw68	03/17/10 12:22 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/17/10 12:24 AM
Re: If Not Now, When?	nikblondiew	03/17/10 03:40 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/17/10 06:49 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	kat727	03/17/10 06:58 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Kimmie Lee	03/17/10 07:08 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Lotus	03/17/10 07:43 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/17/10 09:04 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	BobbiJo	03/17/10 09:06 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Lotus	03/17/10 09:12 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	Virtually_Handsome	03/17/10 09:15 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	ClingingToHope	03/17/10 11:22 PM
You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/18/10 02:13 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/18/10 02:23 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/18/10 02:42 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	NNP1965	03/18/10 02:50 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 04:19 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/18/10 04:26 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	NNP1965	03/18/10 04:30 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/18/10 04:34 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/18/10 04:36 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/18/10 04:38 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 05:36 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/18/10 05:48 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	bright_new_day	03/18/10 05:48 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/18/10 06:29 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 05:53 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 06:08 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	bright_new_day	03/18/10 06:45 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 09:57 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	nikblondiew	03/19/10 05:27 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/19/10 05:37 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Virtually_Handsome	03/19/10 05:43 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Lotus	03/19/10 05:45 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	cw68	03/19/10 05:54 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/19/10 06:46 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/19/10 06:50 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/19/10 07:09 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/19/10 07:19 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/19/10 07:46 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	mishka422	03/19/10 09:40 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/19/10 11:22 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/20/10 07:55 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	smith18	03/20/10 01:28 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	kat727	03/20/10 04:49 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/20/10 04:55 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	kat727	03/20/10 05:09 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Virtually_Handsome	03/20/10 06:02 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/20/10 06:21 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/20/10 09:35 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/20/10 10:23 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/20/10 11:19 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/21/10 06:14 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	sandycay	03/21/10 06:55 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	mindfull	03/21/10 01:19 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	kat727	03/21/10 02:39 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/21/10 03:04 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Bridgestone	03/21/10 07:03 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/21/10 07:10 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Bridgestone	03/21/10 07:15 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Kalni	03/21/10 07:30 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	mindfull	03/21/10 07:48 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/22/10 02:23 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	kat727	03/22/10 02:33 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/22/10 02:36 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	goldeylox	03/22/10 02:40 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/22/10 03:12 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	mindfull	03/22/10 03:17 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/22/10 05:48 AM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	bright_new_day	03/22/10 12:12 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	mishka422	03/22/10 02:01 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	LolaL	03/22/10 02:33 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Bridgestone	03/22/10 03:21 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Kimmie Lee	03/22/10 03:49 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	BobbiJo	03/22/10 04:08 PM
I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/23/10 04:49 AM
Re: I need some input here!	cw68	03/23/10 05:08 AM
Re: I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/23/10 05:12 AM
Re: I need some input here!	Virtually_Handsome	03/23/10 06:39 AM
Re: I need some input here!	mishka422	03/23/10 12:52 PM
Re: I need some input here!	mindfull	03/23/10 01:05 PM
Re: I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/25/10 12:48 AM
Re: I need some input here!	Virtually_Handsome	03/25/10 12:50 AM
Re: I need some input here!	Virtually_Handsome	03/25/10 12:57 AM
Re: I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/25/10 04:25 AM
Re: I need some input here!	mishka422	03/25/10 01:32 PM
Re: I need some input here!	kat727	03/25/10 01:53 PM
Re: I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/25/10 02:12 PM
Re: I need some input here!	BobbiJo	03/25/10 02:17 PM
Re: I need some input here!	bright_new_day	03/25/10 02:21 PM
Re: I need some input here!	mindfull	03/25/10 02:22 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	Tomato	03/20/10 12:50 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	ClingingToHope	03/18/10 04:28 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	nikblondiew	03/18/10 04:33 PM
Re: You never find yourself until you face the truth.	bright_new_day	03/18/10 04:44 PM
Re: If Not Now, When?	smith18	03/17/10 09:13 PM

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