Mr. and Mrs. Gucci in crisis

[MrBond]

hey puppy,

It was towards the end when he was debating whether he really loved her or not after he played it cool for so long with her.

I believe you, I and a few others posted to him.

Great to hear that he worked things out.

Hope your sitch continues to improve. Especially in the intimacy dept. God knows you deserve it.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I guess we read that differently, Stuck. I saw Gucci and Sandi giving the guy some really detailed advice, the last one from Gucci was on 7/17. By 7/19, JR was "going bonkers" wondering what to do. I myself told him to "go back and re-read what Gucci and Sandi have been telling you, and apply it," because everything that needed to be said had been said, and I didn't see him following it.

Not everyone has as much time for "hand-holding" on here as others, and sometimes you do get impatient when people don't follow the advice and then they just come back and ask for more advice.

Puppy

[MrBond]

Thanks for clarifying.

Oh and hope all is well with your D too.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Thanks, Stuck. She's a sweetie, and this is really drawing her back closer to us. She'd been spending ALL of her time with this man before, which is unlike her. They became SO enmeshed, it wasn't healthy.

She's now spending much more time at home, and we're all rallying around her.

Puppy

[ShockedOne]

Not to highjack here, but Pup, is there anything you necessarily did to het her to turn Her around? Was it just 180s and such?

[gucci loafer]

Nothing new to report with SIL. We heard they are in counseling and that they went on a date last week. Haven't heard feedback on how the date went...


Also...

For all those who still question how well "social interaction" (aka seeing someone else when you have a WS)

Read Redsoxfan's new post....


As I have told many of you time and time again...

REALITY... Redsoxfan didn't want her back UNTIL she was seeing someone else... Notice how quickly he turned around and how serious he is about reconciling.. (no surprise to me..)

REALITY.. Listen to reality...

They come back faster when you let go.. when you start dating...

This is ANOTHER example of it.

[Looking_For_Help]

Hello Gucci,

I've had some new developments in my situation. When you get a chance, can you please take a look. I'd like your opinion.

Thanks,
Looking_For_Help (LFH)

[Wholeagain]

Hi Gucci, any update on your SIL?