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kat727 #1808060 07/25/09 07:12 AM
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I had a notable experience today.

Some history: Early in our marriage, I used to tell my husband when I bought clothes and show him what I bought. He always expressed disapproval and lectured me on spending too much money. So for the past 25 years, I have never mentioned buying any new clothes. I sneak them into my closet and just wear them. He never asks when or where I got them.

Newsflash: I have landed at least temporary work with an important agency located in Denver, and will be going there this week to get started on the project and pick up the files to work on.

The notable event: Tonight at dinner my husband asked if I was ready for the trip. I said that I had been going through my closet trying to find appropriate clothes for 4 days in the office in summer. He expressed concern, and suggested that I buy some new clothes!!! (Of course, I already have, but maybe tomorrow I will buy some more.) He then offered to let me borrow a briefcase that he had recently bought for a business trip. I told him I had bought a new briefcase for this trip, and he said, "Good."!!!

I cannot believe this is the same husband.

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Originally Posted By: Sara

I cannot believe this is the same husband.

It's nice when someone here says that (to be positive rather than the usual alien
statements!)

Matilda2 #1811680 08/01/09 02:45 AM
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Bumping you up, Yoyo.

How are you, dear lady?


Me: 49
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Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
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Marriage is a commitment.
NoCodeBlues #1812378 08/03/09 12:51 PM
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Hello yoyo... are you back??

Sara.. that is awesome... Im happy for you!!


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Married for 18 years this june
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Hi Friends,

I'm around. I've just been busy getting DD18 ready to leave for college, less than two weeks, cry. I'm excited for her, but boy, am I going to miss her. She'll only be about an hour away, so I'll get to see her often.

Hope you all are doing okay.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


Yoyowife #1812696 08/03/09 11:05 PM
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Hey Yoyo,

I am just back from my hols in Europe and am awaiting my eldest D's exam results - gulp. Should be packing my eldest D up to University if all goes to plan the 3rd weekend in Sept.

Let's get some emails going around and catch up. ((((HUGS)))))


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Going from strength to strength
saffie #1812699 08/03/09 11:20 PM
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Hi Saffie,

Glad to hear you are back. I just went to Denver for a week for work, but ended up not getting much work done because my boss was sick. But we did enough, and now I am back home with all my pets. I'm sure you were happy to get back to your horses too.

Sara #1813710 08/05/09 08:59 PM
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Hi Friends,

Just had to share this. I'm meeting a man for margaritas tonight. This is what my horoscope says today:

Aquarius, August 5
Say goodbye to the bad habits of your single life now. You have the chance to secure a romantic partnership and to enjoy the coziness of being a couple. The willingness to make compromises with another person prepares you for a deeper commitment.


Hmmmmm....Sounds interesting wink




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Yoyowife #1813719 08/05/09 09:08 PM
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The eclipse I believe is in Aquarius and Leo so must be a real bang for you today! good luck wink

kat


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kat727 #1813927 08/06/09 04:41 AM
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Well, I'm back. He was very nice. He is attractive, educated, and articulate. He is an accountant. It was obvious he was attracted to me. He texted me before I was a block away! Why does this scare the hell out of me?




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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