Funny enough, maybe that is what he needs...maybe a blood sugar thing or whatever. It came from the horse mouth so I'll go with it. Of course I'm sure he envisions me tossing him chocolate chip cookies every hour and a half...In the market today he played on the theme by trying to explain that cherry cream soda helps kids calm down and communicate. Older S pointed out the 46 grams of sugar and we both gave each other a no frickin way look.
Good stuff. The chaos is unnerving. Little guy knows how to garner negative attention on a dime...I want peace. S6 is like a little minnie H right now.
Hmmm...yes except that S6 used to be the more mature one so I see him sort of modeling after H...kind of serious about that. I think it will be a phase. They want H to come home. When the reality sets in, we will get our own rhythm. Did I mention how f'ing sad this is???
Are you putting yourself in the same category of H? FYI- I don't see H here trying to determine how to save his marriage, put his kids first, do the right thing...no, maybe he peaked at 6 or something but if I thought he represented all men, I'd be even more depressed.
Ok, until I get to L, I have a quick question, if H takes things to his new place, is it a possession is 9/10 of the law kind of thing or is it still up for negotiation? I think it is the latter.
OrangeDog ain't a lawyer so make sure you call yours pronto.
But for piece of mind, in most states, stuff acquired during the M up to the point of separation, is to be divided equally. Includes house and property, retirement, savings, vehicles, furnishings, etc. There are exceptions for heirlooms, gifts, tools.
Just keep track of your things. H is not allowed to take off with a bunch of stuff, spend like crazy, hide stuff, or give stuff away.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
