Regardless of what happens with your marriage, it is you who are responsible for your own happiness. You have to identify ways to achieve that happiness independently of your marriage.
That holds true for all of us!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Now and then you have to be grateful for the clarity the WAS tries to give, even though their words only mean so much. You know what you have to keep doing, which is GAL and working on the PMA. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I made the dumb mistake of asking her if she is still keeping the door open for a possibly future reconciliation like she had said before. She said no. I said is there anything I can do to change that. She said just leave her alone. I said ok, I will.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I made the dumb mistake of asking her if she is still keeping the door open for a possibly future reconciliation like she had said before. She said no. I said is there anything I can do to change that. She said just leave her alone. I said ok, I will.
Kevin
Kevin,
What happened to trusting God? We are ALL subject to our own human weaknesses....but, I don't understand why you keep repeating this behaviour? It is so self-destructive. It almost appears that you WANT her to file again. I know that isn't true but it is the only way I can begin to understand this behaviour. I'm looking forward to seeing you tomorrow. We can catch up then.
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
I miss you too!!! Sorry for the hijack K4D but I had to give my dear friend a hug!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
I'm trying to catch up on your thread right now! I'm all the way up to July 4th!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
