Just from reading your last 2 posts today, it sounds to me like you're going to need an L and let your L do the stuff that needs to be done. I know they'll do a one-hour consultation for free and maybe you could ask ?s about the move then? Karen
The workaholic... That was me... no matter how hard the x tried to talk about it, the time i was missing with the family. Yes i took it as nagging. I dont know what to say except for me, the bomb is the only thing that honestly shook the rocks in my head to where they alligned up and i got the pic. Yes for me it was to late..
The limbo land... oh i know that oh so well. But i chose that for me, honestly its helped me heal alot. Moving back with family, that was the thing i wanted most, but i made my decision to wait 2 more years until my son graduates. Plus i just dont want to affect him more by taking him away from his mom.
You have made alot of progress since i have been off the boards, I am very proud of you. As the weeks, months go by we get stronger and stronger... looking back at what poor soles we were at the beginning of all of this really makes me want to pat our backs because no matter what we have came far!
My STBX has lived with her pos-om for the last year now... So limbo time is over and gone... My process for the end of the last 20yrs starts in a couple of weeks.
PM keep your head high and keep that smile on your face, it will make someones day, you may never know it but it will. Take care! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1bxlDAjGCo
Jame38
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
