The MC told us to continue with that assigment and to work on the hugging thing.
I'm sorry Tim..but I'm sitting here laughing my assss off...I find the way you typed that to be funny as hell for some reason...
MC said to work on the "hugging thing"...that's so funny to me
When an LBS refers to a getting a hug from a WAS as a "hugging thing" then IMO it must show true detachment..LOL..hopefully that "hugging thing" will work its way into a "groping thing" which will turn into you two doing the "wild thing"...
Always nice to spread a little laughter to someone in the morning.
Groping and doing the "wild thing" would be awesome but I do not even think along those lines. I would settle for more snuggling and physical contact right now.
Hi WT been very busy lately and have not been on in a while.
I am doing well. This last weekend I went camping with my son and the boy scouts and had a really good time. It is so enjoyable to watch them try and learn new things and plus have the older scouts lead and teach the younger scouts. The weather held out till late Saturday and it was a very relaxing weekend for me.
Before I left I gave my W a hug and we texed friday night, Saturday during the day and then she called me on the way home on Sunday. We have never done that when I went on trips before so it was a big change for us.
The last two nights her and I took walks and took advantage of the time to talk and enjoy each others company. The conversation did not feel forced and the time together felt very relax and comfortable if you know what I mean.
Last week I got tan bark to do my landscape and she helped my spread it which was the first time I can remember her doing that. We did not get it all done and she finished it up on Saturday while I was camping. She told me that its harder than it looks. I just smile and thanked her for finishing it for me.
All in all things are moving along, not sure where it is going but I don't have time to dwell on that. Trying to live each day and not project into the future because it does me no good.
Other than that I am busy at work and have lots of stuff to do around my house so that keeps me busy and grounded. The rest is everyday boring stuff a with no real excitement. Basically life.
How are you doing. Enjoying the nicer weather I hope.
Hi Tim. Just wanted to say it's nice that you at least had some little changes in your sitch. The hug, the texting, the phone call, the outdoor yard work. All small things but BIG things at the same time. I really think it's those small things which are really the biggest things. We sometimes look for only the big events (wild and crazy sex) that we miss the smaller things which are really the foundation a relationship is built on.
I know it's tough to be in the position you are in, and I know it takes a ton of patience, but like we've talked about, keep moving forward.
You're doing the best you can do, and you can't do any better than that. Keep your head high my friend. Life will unfold itself.
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Have not been around much lately. I was in Toronto, Canada the last couple of days doing a job up there. Was nice to get away and walk around the city and see all the sights.
Things are going well between my W and I. Its not great but we are talking more, taking walks, we have been texting each other more and while I was in Canada we emailed each other so it has been nice.
Other than that it is typical stuff, work, yard work, kids swimmming, boy scouts and cook outs. The last two weekends we had family outings and played croquet. We all had alot of fun and it was some really nice days.
Hope all of you have been enjoying the nice weather.
