I am confused as to whether my H is WAH or MLC? I was reading Smurfs thread in the MLC archives and my H seems to fit so many categories.
He has left, gone completely cold (only emails me in relation to our D7) and has been bullying and verbally/emotionally abusive to me, our D and my mother who is staying with me and D7 through this crisis. So much so that i took a Safety Order out, he broke the conditions so i applied for an interim Barring Order.
I am looking at a man I didnt marry......he is living with OW, does not care anything about me at all, but is adamant that he should see D at least 50% of the time, if not a lot more.
He has not pain any maintenance for the last 3 and 1/2 months, except half the mortgage but that is because it is joint ownership. He seems resolute and as every day goes by hates me more.......but is it a question of him hating himself more than me?
I have struggled with the decision to take out these orders but I have been threatened and bullied in my own home.
Would really appreciate some feedback guys, thanks so much for your support.
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