If I recall that had that little drama fest in front of you and he told her it was over. Must have been acting then. I would tell him words from him have very little meaning, actions speak volumes.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kat, Yes, you recall correctly. I've heard this song and dance way too many times. Until she is gone, which I don't think will happen things will continue to head towards the big D. I just want to get DD finished with graduation and then I suspect I will be talking to my lawyer when I'm finished with the school year.
One of his friends who is also a business owner told him once, "First of all you should never cheat on your wife and secondly, especially not with your secretary. All I can tell you is that you are screwed!" Sounds like a wise man, he should have listened to the friend and got rid of her a long time ago. Sounds like the business will be jeapordized either way my H goes.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Let's hope he learns something out of all of this one way or another. Sound like you are doing good and maybe dropping some fishing lines of your own! lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Sounds like your H might not be getting 'screwed' quite how he wants to be anymore!!!!
BTW.....can we stop insulting horse's azz's on this thread.....I know some really nice horses with cute azz's
On a more serious note- I know this hurts Yoyo but you are doing a good job. Big pats on the back for how you are standing your ground. I am glad to see your H may be beginning to see that he actually has to show you he means things....rather than just saying them. If he does get his act together enough for you to ever reconsider being with him don't FORGET this lesson that he has taught you.
(((((((HUGS))))))) to a fine lady.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
NC, He never agreed to fire her. He said he would tell her it was over and he knew she would quit on her own. I told him I knew that wouldn't happen. She divorced her H for my H, she will do whatever she has to, to get him. I told him we could never work our problems out unless she was gone. That's when he got all mad and said forget it if you won't let me do it my way. So of course he has withdrawn back into his cave. So the same ole same ole.... This time I'm not biting...
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
