I didn't realize this was your spring break, You are invited to Florida too! Go ask H for money and come visit me! We can go to the beach and Disneyworld. There's still time.
Hi Yoyo, enjoy your week off. I think you should go to Florida too!
I feel the same about only going to dinner with married people. It does make it difficult sometimes. I got in a conversation with a woman at CVS that was new to the area while looking at mascara! We exchanged cell phone numbers and she called and going to meet for coffee one night. I was happy because she is on her own also. I get what you are saying.
take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
I had a very interesting conversation last night. DD20 and a few of her friends asked if they could grill out burgers here last night. One of her friends happens to work for our company. When he walked in he asked where my H was? I said I'm sure he's with OW. He said "Oh, that makes me so mad, I thought ya'll were back together." I said, "Well, things were looking better, but you know him." He said, "Yeah. I think he's crazy and so do the rest of the guys." At this time, he paused and had a look on his face like I shouldn't have said that. I said,"Don't worry, I would never say anything to H because I would not want to jepordize any of your jobs." I said, "So what do all of the guys think of it the situation?" He said, "I don't need to say." After some coaxing, he finally opened up with my assurance that this conversation would not go any further than us. Well, of course that didn't include my DBing buddies. By the way this conversation did not take place in front of DD or any of the others.
Keep in mind that I have known this young man since he was 14 years old, now 21 years old. He went to another school than my DD but they have been friends for years and spent a lot of time at our house. He of course never knew my H very well because as you all remember he was always in the bedroom watching tv. It was me who asked H to hire him.
This is the jest of the friend's remarks. The employees think that the OW/secretart (this was a typo, but I think it's kind of fitting ) is trashy and cannot understand what he sees in her. They say H is crazy because they know he is going to lose everything. He said all of the guys have even said they know that the business wouldn't haven't started without my help. I'm not sure how they know this. One of the employees that is around H's age said that H got drunk one time and told him that his lawyer said that he needed to work things out with me or be prepared to lose half of everything.
Like I said I would never betray this young man. I would not want to jepordize his job. It sure is nice to know that the our employees have some morals and think H is crazy and the OW is trashy!!! It just makes me feel better, yes, I know it's crazy to worry about what others think, but as you all know it's nice to know we are not alone thinking the WAS have lost their minds!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
it's nice to know we are not alone thinking the WAS have lost their minds!
That is it exactly -- other people's confirmations means we can be sure the situation is what it is, that we are not crazy and that our WAS's really are "gas-lighting" us.
You said: One of the employees that is around H's age said that H got drunk one time and told him that his lawyer said that he needed to work things out with me or be prepared to lose half of everything.
That steams me, and I don't even know your H. He is not moving forward on a divorce because of money? Leading you on because he doesn't want to lose half of his business? At this point I would be so afraid of getting back together with him for fear he will always "use" you, until he feels financially stable, and then what will he do?
So here I am in Retirement City. We walked for about an hour in the resistance pool, which I have to admit was pretty cool, and then we made it to dinner before 6 for the early bird special, which was an amazing meal for $10. each. But,....we also had coupons! Then we sang happy birthday and ate the apple cobbler that I made. The cobbler dough was still a little mushy in the center, I sure hope I didn't make everyone sick with it. But it tasted good, and it's 3 hours later, and I still feel fine.) Now to try to sleep on the uncomfortable bed. I may move to the sofa.
My spring break is over. It was very hard to get up early this morning, I got spoiled this week!
I did manage to get a lot of accomplished this week. I'm excited my hardwood floors and ceramic tile will be laid within a week! I'm painting my bedroom tonight. I also ordered a new comforter for my bed. It has a little bit of the wild side to it. It is taupe and has some brown zebra stripe accents. I am woman, hear me roar! LOL. Okay, that was very corny... Sorry.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Hooray! You are making the house your own! Gonna wash that man right out of my hair, I'm gonna wash that man right out of my hair, and send him on his way!
) is trashy and cannot understand what he sees in her. They say H is crazy because they know he is going to lose everything. He said all of the guys have even said they know that the business wouldn't haven't started without my help. I'm not sure how they know this. One of the employees that is around H's age said that H got drunk one time and told him that his lawyer said that he needed to work things out with me or be prepared to lose half of everything. 
It was very hard to get up early this morning, I got spoiled this week!