I spoke with the B Lawyer yesterday and he thinks we will be okay without the QDRO signed by a judge. But we would be better off if it was. I haven't heard from my other L yet. I would have filed today except that I still have too much money in one account and I get paid tomorrow & Child support on Monday so I will have to wait until April now. Almost a full 2 month delay!!
The kids seemed to be breaking dishes left and right last night. I got upset and felt bad about it but they have to be more careful. Almost every dish that ex and I bought right before we got married is broken. Well that is nearly 20 years and with 4 kids I guess that isn't soo bad. Here's to having a better day.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory