I've Come Full Circle 23

[kat727]

Well, the not feeling so good hit again last night. Darn it!! I was not a happy girl but I went to bed early. I was tossing and turning a lot but just kept telling myself I would feel better. When does this stuff just go away??

kat

[gForce]

I assume you mean dealing with your D, not your illness.

It will never go away, unfortunately, especially since you share kids. I still have issues dealing with XW, even 5 years later. But the difference is how it affects you and how you deal with it. And if you take a look at your progress over the last year, I think you are doing great. XH affects you still, but I don't think you let him dictate your actions like he used to. You are moving in the right direction.

[kat727]

i did mean my cold/flu whatever it is actually! but yes, I did need to look at where I am at in regards to the D and the soon to come B. It will relieve a lot of pressure soon. Does not mean that I like it though.

I am getting my financial plan in place. Getting my savings to a healthy amount is foremost. Then replacing my 16 year old car which hopefully will make it to 18!

kat

PS: G it is so nice to know that you still lurk around sometimes.

[gForce]

oh, your flu... then never mind.



I check on the old gang almost every day. When I was in crisis mode, I was frustrated with the lack of successfully saved M's. Even if I have nothing productive to say, I want people to know that there are happy outcomes out there.

[kat727]

I am glad that you are doing so well. I stay here because one: I don't feel like my thread is a constant party. lol and two:I am not ready to go. I am a work in progress. The issues of the divorce don't end just because some paper was filed some where. Like G said, they are on going. My ex doesn't bother me nearly as much as he used to. What's the point of fighting? I just wonder if he will be able to hold his tongue when(if) I ever start to date.

kat

[karen43]

What's the point of fighting? I just wonder if he will be able to hold his tongue when(if) I ever start to date.

kat

I don't know, I've been less friendly to H, not exactly fighting, but feels good! Just once in a while maybe? And the answer is: NO!!! Sorry you're still feeling under the weather, Kat. Are you getting losts of rest and juice??? Karen

[kat727]

As much rest as one can with 4 active and sweet kids!! I bought juice but not working well when my stomach is upset too. I am just trying to slow down.

kat

[whatdidido]

I had the same thing...took a long time to get rid of it....on and off...felt like I was better, than, BAM, I was feeling yucky all of the sudden. Rest is best.

[kat727]

Ex came by to get the kids on Friday(when I went home, sick) and we all noticed he had a bunch of stubble. D10 asked him about it and he said he would shave later, just wanted to be a bum for the weekend. When he came to take the boys to school, the stubble of course is more prominent. I didn't say anything but I asked him on more than one occasion if he would grow a beard and he always said no, I don't like the way it looks on me.

What will be next, hairclub for men???

kat
ps I guess he doesn't have much else to "throw away" for the affair, so all he can do is make changes to himself to make "them" happy.

[Sugar and Spice]

What will be next, hairclub for men???

Too bad it isn't really club, huh?

Take care of yourself. When I was sick, it took almost two weeks before I actually started feeling human again. Rest, rest, rest...and more rest.