Finally a new wifey thread

[Silent Chrleader]

I'm glad things are going well for you, KJo. You deserve it! I wish I had your strength. Right now I could use some.

[Tomato]

Hi KelliJo

I hope you are feeling wonderful.

Prayers of peace I will say for ya.

T

[Tomato]

and prayers for a slow and steady reconciliation/restoration of your M I will also be offering up to Him. He will work on H's heart and your's as well. He knows just what you guys need. He always does.

'night

[Tomato]

don't work too hard ...now that I just caught up and see you continue to be bringin work home with ya.

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((Kelly Jo))))))

Wow. What a quick turn of events. Keep your feet under you, there could be another turn when you least expect it.

I think you've done the right thing, it was time to draw some boundaries. Now he will get to live with the consequences, we shall see what happens!

[hope3343]

Wifey, I read through your sitch tonight. Silver Fox told me to stop by. You are a strong woman. I am in almost the same situation as yourself. Think after the new year H will be asking for D. You are doing well with God's faith. I still struggle with turning it over to God. More peace and serentiy. I post over in infidelity - losing my sanity. The funny part is I also look in Match.com but for a different reason than looking for a date. i see what the dating pool is in my age group and look at their writeups and it makes me more determined to try and keep my M. lol

[The Wifey]

Thanks everybody. I got up this morning at 4:30 and prayed for my husband. I think I finally understand that I can not keep or restore my marriage unless I let it go completely. I have given him and the situation to God and I continue in my faith to him.

I also prayed for all of my friends here. You have been the wind beneath my wings when I thought I would sink to the ground and never get up again.

Holy hannah, I just checked my email and found this:

I can't stay here. Coming back to the house. Until I have funds to stay somewhere. We love each other and consider each other best of friends


I replied:

No. No you are not. If you come back I leave.

I do love you. It is now time for you to have what you have been asking for. I understand that I can not restore or save this marriage. I have to let you go.

I will never forget you and maybe some day I'll be over you. I know I can not heal while you are here.

WTF!!!!!!!!!

I told him if he really loved me that he would go. I even gave him money to pay for a motel room. If he can't stay with his parents then he has to find another alternative.

I've drawn a line in the sand for my sanity. Lord give me the strength.

[The Wifey]

He sent the email at 5:01 am. I just saw it after 6. He better not be on his way because I don't want him here. He has hurt me enough. Prayers everyone!

[carpenter54]

Been reading your sitch...will pray for you.

[Tawnya]

Wow {{{{{Wifey}}}}} Let us know how you are doing my friend..what a crazy way to start the day!

Tawnya