How can one tell if it is a true MLC or the WAH???? I know MWG told me that right now he would not be calling me because it was all so new for them, making a home together.but sometimes I wonder what it truly is??? Because he is coming for christmas to see us all as he put it....
That is going to be sooo very hard... knowing that at the end of christmas day he will be going to go back to her families house to finish off the day... and then they go back to where they live...
I guess I could look at it as a baby step because he didnt have to tell us they were going to be here for xmas...
Trying to keep my chin up still praying for a miracle...only God knows what is to come....
WAS or MLC what could it be
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
IRMAT, You need to do a search on Jack and Three Beans. He wrote an excellent thread on the walkaways. He even went as far as to state the he was one in his first marriage. Walkaways, walk and never look back, they do not reconsider their actions. It's over, kaput, towel tossed in.
Mlc is about emotions. People are driven by those emotions and yes, some of them remain in contact throughout the crisis. Others display a lot of anger, replay, etc. and when the fog lifts a bit, start contacting the family again. I suspect your h is talking about visiting, but the proof will be in the pudding. On the date of the visit, he may very well come up with an excuse not to visit. You'll have to wait and see on that one. Oh, by the way, they do like to share some info w/us every now and then. They tend to get loose lips at times.
No matter what type of crisis he's in, keep the faith and dig deeper for more patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
