I just don't know how I should feel about it. At least I didn't go with my first instinct to drive to her house and beat her up. And I would have made sure her husband knew about her confiding in my husband about their problems. Strange, once I calmed down I felt really sorry for her. She is quite pitiful.
KJ- my money woulda been on you!!!!LOL....i'm right there with you. i've wanted to beat the living chit outta my W's OM for about 8 months now..........argh. even more so now that i see how my W is being hurt by this guy....
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
Just from reading your post, I gotta tell you, sis that you handled this wonderfully. You never cease to amaze me with your wisdom. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. You are good, really, REALLY good. Your H is coming right along!
The weekend was pretty good. Friday my H and I went to Applebee's for dinner. Then we just went home and watched tv. We both slept on the couch. (Its a large sectional sofa.)
Saturday we spent the day together. Mostly we were watching tv and hanging out. Just very quiet. It was so hard later, but I went to my company Christmas party alone. I felt like a fish out of water, but the party was very nice.
Sunday we had breakfast, then I did some house stuff, then we went to the in-laws for the rest of the day. That was fun and its always great to see them.
When we came home I wasn't feeling that great and fell asleep for a while. H went downstairs to work out.
All in all a quiet weekend with nothing major going on. I think it was relaxing and peaceful.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
((((((((Kj))))))) I wish I coulda gone to your party with you. We woulda had a blast !!
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Very quick post, guys, and then I'm heading home. My son and husband are FINALLY in contact. Via email so far, but they may do lunch this week. I gave them both the same advice when they asked what to talk about, "Pretend you never met this person and you are gettting to know them for the first time." Now my lips are zipped and they are on their own. Well, with Jesus and Lord on hand of course.
So far so good this week. Still a little under the weather, but still peaceful at home.
Poet, I forgive you for waking me up. : ) I know you needed to talk. Prayers for my friend everyone.
I will see if I have any energy left later. I have so many of you to catch up with.
I love you all and pray for His blessings for each one.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
(just kidding..well kinda!)
Hope you are doing wonderful! ANd I hope that your bond to the Lord is being enriched. We need Him.