I'm glad to hear that you arent disappointed Cinders. This board helped to keep me sane for months following my Ws departure. I wasnt trying to abandon it. The D was something I never dreamt would really happen.
But life goes on. Unfortunately, my XW doesnt seem to be moving toward any toward reconciliation for any time in the near future.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
MMF, Good to see you post. I had been wondering what happened to you... Hey, want to take up this challenge? Did you see the movie Fireproof? Would you take up the 40-day Love Dare?
Mishka, Punk, PH, Cinders and others, I miss you guys. I needed some time away and trying to decide what I want to do with my life. I hope you are not disappointed in my self imposed solitary confinement. I just need to re-evaluate what I need to do.
Dissapointed, laugh, snort, uh, Guilty here too!
I suppose that's probably a "normal part" of this. It took me a bit longer, but I'm finally getting back. I'm a bit more in tune now though, things are equalizing for me.
Bro, take the time you need to deal with inside, we all do, and we're not going away.
Best,
Punkt.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
Hi PH! I am all for the Love Dare although my interaction with my wife is rare. I have still not seen the movie, to be honest, since I know that it will be really tough to watch. I just watched "A Walk to Remember" with my daughter and wow! what a weeper.
Just let me know.
Punk, it is good to hear from you. As you can tell, I am still not very consistent in visiting the site still. Slowly but surely.
I will say that I am surprised that I seem to be letting her go and then something happens that just makes it painful again, missing her.
I have heard people admit, both first hand and from a distance, that although they thought they were past someone in their lives, they learned that it wasn't true. They have, no matter how many years passed, still felt the pain of what happened (or what didn't happen). Maybe this happens for people that were incredibly close and vulnerable with someone or with someone for many years or a combination of both. Lucky me. I fall into both camps.
Grace Awww thanks for the bear hugs!!!
It is wonderful to hear from you too!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
