I'ts funny how X started our I'm convo by being a real clown, kidding about how i'm gonna be even closer to 40 (in big black bold). I'm older than he but I still get carded & even yet they still dont beleive me. he he he, he cant say the same....
Well, that sucks...maybe you could play the card of 'one less kid on your hands' type thing? I dunno. Isn't that funny about being carded!? When we first got together...STBX looked really young...granted we were 21 at the time. But he looked very young!! And now, I'm still getting carded everywhere I go, I now look younger thru all this because I've lost so much weight and with the help of hair dye!!! lol But he's gained a bunch of weight, especially in his face and neck area...add with the way he dresses like a bum wearing big baggy clothes, he hardly ever gets carded! lol Revenge is sweet, but karma's a b*tch!! lol
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!
BUT, I'm happy I'm home w/ my girls and they woke me up w/ a happy bday banner they made for me! D7 had several bday cards from her and her school freinds. D11 baught me a bath crystal and gel set. D8 got me some chocolate.
It's a great bday so far! We are goign to go to the Veteran's day parade now,
Why cant X get it that we r thru, fini w/ having sexual R??
He braught the girls back a little early in hopes that he could give me a "bday present"!! But when he saw that I wasnt home he said " Well I see you already got yours".
This was the first time since we were seperated that he gets me a bday present from the girls. Ofcourse it was not much $ not at all and told the girls only under $10, but still, I didnt expect anything at all.
He told the girls this was the last time I take one of them on his weekend. I was asking him "pretty please" what can I do for u to let D11 go /w me to Orlando this weekend? This was earlier when we were Im'ng. I knew that would get me in trouble & his mind would go to the gutter. Well, it did go there. He named one favor by asking me to let him take the girls the Wednesday night before TGD & the he said thats #1.... letting me to beleive ther was a #2.
He makes it seem like if he does me a favor then I "owe" him like he has said before.
This is how he made me feel when he would give the cs sheck before it was oredered by the judge.
God, it was very hard to turn him down, physically he was looking good and it has been a while, but I dont want to go there and then regret it.
