If he thinks he can't run his business without her, there's a problem right there!! She's his secretary right? Guess what, they are a dime a dozen.. no offense to any secretary's out there, but everybody is looking for work and if he really wanted to he could fire her. He is in the private sector, all he has to do is say that her working there is interfering with his marriage. If she sues him there is a VERY small chance she would win. Those types of lawsuits only get won when the business is federal, government or some other municipality. Not that someone couldn't sue for Sexual harassment, but she would have a hard time trying to prove that, given the fact that she's part of it.
Sorry, didn't mean to get wordy, but Ive been a Political Union President, and believe me, he can get rid of her.
He just doesn't deserve you. plain and simple.
Your a wonderful person, and in return deserve someone just as wonderful to be with.
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Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Since this is your business too, couldn't you fire her on the basis that her relationship with your H has crossed business lines and your business is suffering because of it? Start interviewing for a replacement.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
oh what an interesting idea kat!! I would love to see that! if she truly is obsessed with your H and wont leave him alone, maybe he is afraid of what she will do if he would let her go. I know my sitch is the opposite, H ow is above him, and that freaks him out as to what she might do to him in retaliation, and she is physco lol.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
My students have been taking standardized tests today, fun, fun.
Thanks everyone for dropping by my thread and giving me input, believe me I need it!!! Let homecoming get over and then I will get back on with my drama filled life.
So Theo, you've never heard the term "man-whore", is it just a southern thing? LOL
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I had my day made today. As some of you know I teach learning disabled students. School is hard for lots of students, but mutltiply that by about 10 for my students.
Today one of my students that is in town for his 10 year high school reunion stopped by to visit me. He was raised by a single mother and one of the nicest well-mannered young men you will ever meet. I must admit, he is probably in my top five favorite students I have ever had.
I was walking back to my class when I see a well dressed young man looking my way. He had on dress slacks and a tie. He started walking towards me with a huge smile on his face. It was then that I realized it was Darnell. He came up and gave me a big hug. We exchanged pleasantries and such. I then asked him what he was doing now. He told me he is working on his masters! I told him I was so proud of him. He hugged me with tears in his eyes and said "I could not have made it without you." I said,"Yes, you could have." He said,"Well, maybe I could have, but you sure helped me. I mean it, you helped me more than any teacher I ever had" Wow, that's what teaching is all about! I know there are lots of teachers that have successful students, but when one my learning disabled students succeed in such a fashion, it is truly wonderful!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Your a wonderful person, and in return deserve someone just as wonderful to be with.