What I learned from H's MLC

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What I learned from H's MLC #1596212 09/18/08 07:32 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,144 CA I imLIN OP Member
OP imLIN Member I Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,144 CA	I used to think like a lot of people that MLC was just an excuse to act stupid, buy a sports car, and have an affair! I learned it is so much more complicated and serious then that. I have learned that usually MLC is coupled with unresolved issues from childhood...the worse the issues, the worse the crisis I have learned that it usually takes a minimum of 2 years after the MLC'er bails on the family for them to return...IF they return I have learned that the MLC will return with some pretty major issues to conquer...major depression, substance abuse, OP to let go of, and others...depression is the MOST common and usually at the root of the ENTIRE MLC to begin with... Just a little of what I learned...my H is home, happy, and we have rebuilt a better stronger marriage...he has been home since 2006, says he loves me often, and is doing well with the kids (both minor and adult)...we are once again a family and to those who are new friends they would never guess what we had been through the past 7 years! (that is not a typo...his crisis was at least 7 years in length...from the beginning, to his leaving us, to his return, and finally to his becoming his true self again. Status: Happy and together

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What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/18/08 07:32 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	missmyfriend	09/18/08 09:34 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	MidwesternGirl	09/18/08 09:44 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	forward	09/19/08 01:33 AM
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Re: What I learned from H's MLC	No Longer BH	09/19/08 06:11 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/20/08 01:13 AM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	Valeria	09/20/08 01:50 AM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/20/08 02:53 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	Valeria	09/20/08 10:34 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/21/08 02:21 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	missmyfriend	09/22/08 03:42 AM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	No Longer BH	09/22/08 04:18 AM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	Valeria	09/22/08 11:40 AM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/22/08 06:31 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	hope3343	09/22/08 08:28 PM
Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/23/08 02:58 AM
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Re: What I learned from H's MLC	No Longer BH	09/23/08 03:36 AM
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Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/24/08 05:48 PM
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Re: What I learned from H's MLC	imLIN	09/27/08 02:03 AM
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