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Dia #1812767 08/04/09 02:32 AM
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Hey Dia-

I skimmed DB at the bookstore, have read DR about 10 times in the last few months, do not have 5LL nor have I seen it. It sounds like one I should look into, though.

Thanks for the words of support! Today was a day they were definitely needed... crazy


Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
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5LL is excellent. Once you know which techniques are most suited to your spouse, you do need to keep a little restraint in not going over the top with it, especially if your spouse's LL is physical touch. My H is responding really will to compliments, praise and thanks (words of affirmation)but he's pretty gunshy about touch.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
Dia #1813422 08/05/09 05:38 AM
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Thanks Dia. I will check it out. My W is going away for 10 days on business, altho' I suspect OW may meet her where she is going. frown

At least for the next 10 days I do not have to feel like I am walking on eggshells, or wondering whether or not she is going to be sleeping at home or if I will see her & OW somewhere in the neighborhood...


Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
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