When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
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Some friendships encompass all three. Thank you, J3B. For your wit, your wisdom, your generous spirit and your friendship. I won't forget you...
Especially since I still have your picture album in my faves, you good lookin' thang, you!
J3B- im tearing up for some reason. you know why. you were there for me from the start of my journey here...well i am now on my way to being healed and my M is on its way to happily ever after as well. you kept me strong and clear. you helped me realize i can make it through today.
you are an amazing soul!
(((J3B))) smooches- Pisces
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I too have moved passed the pain and don't visit here as much as I used to. I think we both passed through the fire and flame to become the men we truly are. Even though we had different outcomes.
You know you were there for me in the dark times and how much I appreciate you for that. I'll be in touch.
Strength and honor, my friend.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Crap I hope I'm not too late... Thank you for everything Jack!!!!
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...
