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I have to keep on keeping on. And for right now, in this moment, I can.


Hey KJ - Just checking in on you - I love this statement. I'm going to borrow it for awhile.

Stay the course - you sound great and there are many positives to feed off.

Thanks for stopping by my thread lately - you have helped A LOT!


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(((NDS))) Good for you and happy birthday!!!!! Let me guess, you're 29 again?

Thanks (((Michelle and SMW))) for checking on me. I am fine for the moment, but that is subject to change.

Right now I just need to keep focusing on work. Tons to do today!!!!!!!


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S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

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keep focused on yourself today....you are doing so much better!

Keep it up....did you get your milkshake last nite?


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Sadly no milkshake. It was raining like crazy when I was on the way home and I didn't want to stop. I worried about the H being worried. I don't know what to say or if I shouldn't even get near him. He likes me to get close, but then worries about the um... "equipment."

Not sure what to do with it exactly. Guys - I need your opinions here.


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Not sure what to do with it exactly

Are we talking about the milkshake?


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It's not such a bad thing!

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I'm sure that is really eating away at him.

Obviously WOA. I'd say be more willing to just do foreplay stuff. I'm sure there are things he would enjoy that wouldn't necessarily involve attempting to "really" ML. And I'd say make it clear that you are enjoying whatever you do get, take the focus off what most see as the goal of sex. That will relieve some of the stress/pressure for him hopefully?


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((((Phil))) Are you a hopeless romantic, too? I'm thrilled that you think it isn't so bad.

(((Michelle))), believe me. I am more than happy to just give him attention whether it leads to ml or doesn't. He seems to think giving him time off will help, but he thinks that means no contact at all. I have a hard time with that. Even if we just snuggle on the couch or something, I'm happy.

(((Coach))) I wasn't talking about the milkshake.

I sure wish Jeff would chime in here. Where's hunky?


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Sonny, true love is the greatest thing, in the world-except for a nice MLT - mutton, lettuce and tomato sandwich, where the mutton is nice and lean and the tomato is ripe.
~Miracle Max, The Princess Bride.

True Love... As you wish

I think I'm beyond being a hopeless romantic. I cried during the penny scene in Ghost, and I was a hard a$$ back when I watched it.

One of my favorite movies is The Princess Bride.
A classic fairy tale, with swordplay, giants, an evil prince, a beautiful princess, and yes, some kissing (as read by a kindly grandfather). It's a love story.

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(((Coach))) I wasn't talking about the milkshake.

Then I don't think I can help.


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