That is what friends are for, Neil. And you really picked my chin up off my desk yesterday. BTW - he still has not answered her email. Yes, I had to look. LOL.
You helped me too, Jeff. As did everyone that came by and stopped me from crying and boo hooing.
(((Jeff,Neil)))
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Hi, honey. Well, I worked a little later then went home. H had just gotten there. I heated up a quick dinner and we ate. Then we watched the movie I rented. It was just a casual night. I did some homework during the movie.
Quiet night and quiet morning. H is very worried about having to take the ED med. I can tell its his big worry right now. I can relate to his fear. Trying to be understanding and I'm just not sure if its better to not bring it up. I know you DAM don't like to talk about things.
I am working hard at the not talking thing. H knows I love him. I'm not telling now, I'm showing. I've been making a real effort to cook dinner every night. Hard to believe I really had gotten out of the habit because we always made it a point to eat as a family when our S lived at home. I think he appreciates it.
After he went to bed I read for a while. Reading is one of my GAL things.
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Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
H is very worried about having to take the ED med.
Tell H that if he is worried they now have it in eye drop form. It doesn't really help just makes you look hard.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Coach, You have me in nearly hysterical giggles right now. Somehow I don't know if he would laugh right now. Maybe some day I can tell him that. Way toooooooooo Funny!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Hey Wifey Thanks for stopping in on my thread...feeling better today. Sorry I don't come over and pipe in much. I do check on you all the time and you are doing great though...believe that.
Thanks for checking on me. I have plans for Saturday so far. Have you started planning for the weekend yet?
Tons of homework tonight. GRRRRR.
I have times when I can believe and others that I falter. But with friends at my back it is a lot harder to backslide.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Thanks for checking on me. I have plans for Saturday so far. Have you started planning for the weekend yet?
Tons of homework tonight. GRRRRR.
I have times when I can believe and others that I falter. But with friends at my back it is a lot harder to backslide.
I am taking 4 day weekend. My birthday is Sunday and we are having a cookout at the house with friends and family....not really a b day party...it just ended up on that day.
I am glad my wife and I are doing this and working on it together. One of my problems in the past was getting all uptight about things like this....crowds at the house, spending all the money. Poor W stopped doing it because I was such a pain. She enjoys this stuff so much, and it is doing so much good right now to let go and watch her. She loves to entertain, and I know she sees that I am excited about it. It's my birthday, but I am really doing it for her.
