I would wait another week. Your L says that it should be based on income, would you really need an L if he took you to court? Sounds like the judge is going to rule based on fact.
Have you shared the information your L told you with your X? Might help him calm down a bit about this.
You have until the end of the month, give yourself a little more time to process this. I'd only move on this if it will be stressful for you in the long run. Sounds a bit unfair to me considering the information your L has already supplied.
X is probably a bit short with all the trips he's having. Hopefully he's thought about it some now and is beginning to realise he was being unfair (to put it mildly).
I just caught up on your thread. I like NNP's answer but i think that just waiting to asee what he does and just let the judge decide if X even takes it that far. I think he is just trying to scare you. I don't think that you need a L at all. You just need to call his bluff and let him know that he can't take advantage of you any more!!!!!
Sounds to me like you have a completly normal teenage D. I remember my oldest D being so good and my youngest D always trying to see what she could get away with. Now my youngest is so independent, holding down 1 full time and 2 part time jobs and going to college full time living on her own. Boy how time changes things and they grow into such wonderful adults.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 07/25/0812:49 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Hi Mattie, Its been a long time since I have been on here. I miss visiting with you guys. I was trying to find YOYO stitch but it looks locked up. Sounds like your H thru you another curve with the tax mix up. Well i finally filed. My H was pretty insistant that we go thru with it and I am tired of all the Drama. We finally agreed with everything. He is still living with OW. I haven't run into them but he has had her around my oldest S24. My S tries not to tell me so it won't hurt but lots of people tell me they see them together so the only way for me to cope is try to move ahead. There is no way I could ever change anything so I keep telling my self to keep moving in a positive direction. maybe that is why i posting to day to you to confirm what I keep telling my self. Venting maybe?????
Keep your head up and hope things are going better with you.
