I think she wants to be friends

[Jack_Three_Beans]

AND Ditto Bworl.

[sleeper]

Thanks guys,

Yes I am still in love with my x-W. This is one reason I haven't dated. What would be the point?

She is still "in love" (OM's words) with me. Even OM sees it and on some level I believe she knows it too. Yes, x-W is "all messed up" (her words). Some of you describe her as "crazy" (no argument).

I do flip-flop. I'm still trying to figure this out. I struggle with what is the right thing to do. I'm not trying to score points. She expects me to do more and be there more (even now) than I am willing or comfortable to do.

I wasn't trying to tease any of you. The present financial issue has to do with a commercial property which is still in both of our names but she adamantly claims is hers. She didn't pay the property taxes so it was bought by a third party at Sheriff's sale. That's what she doesn't know. In the Great State of Confusion the original owner has 2-3 years to redeem the property. This AM I took a half measure in the sitch by paying current taxes to keep things from getting worse but not entirely rectifying the sitch. When she gets back I'll tell her about it and then decide if I'm going to help her more or not.

[forward]

than I am willing or comfortable to do

Sleeper, Maybe you need to back off and let go then?

[sleeper]

"The best laid plans of men and mice oft gang aglay"

"The path to hell is paved with good intentions"

You all are right, Breton. I need to do just that. I've only taken care of part of this problem and I'll let her take care of the rest of it when she returns.

[sleeper]

"Oh what a tangled web we weave..."

X-W just called. She's coming back from vacation a day early. Her doctor called her this AM. Routine tests came back abnormal in the worst way. Dr wanted her in for biopsy this AM, couldn't of course because she is out of town.

Kicker; X-W probably isn't covered on my health insurance any longer.

This is no joke, this is really happening. Just when I was going to try to go major dark.

[Bworl]

Who cares about going dark when you're talking about biopsies.

Kind of shows you just what's REALLY important.


Bill

[Purr]

Sleeper,

I'm sorry to hear this; sounds potentially quite serious. Is this something life-threatening for your xw?

How are you doing with this?

Purr

[sleeper]

Bill, you're absolutely right. I'm not trying to make a decision, just commenting on the irony.

Purr, I'm a litle shook up.

Yeah, could be serious, could be life-threatening. Added to the general health concerns is my concern she may not be covered by insurance now.

[fig]

then she can apply for medical assitance

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assistance

jeeeeeeeeeeeeeepers with this edit button